Dating a Filipina Without Social Media: Green Flag or Not?
Is not having a social media account a green flag or a red flag?
The majority of the people on the internet would agree that people without social media are much better off that way, which is quite ironic. But at the very least, these people are aware of the dangers that social media poses to their mental health.
But it’s a different case in the Philippines, where having a social media account is almost considered a necessity.
A lot of Filipinos use this to keep in touch and communicate with their loved ones. They also use it to make new friends and potentially find a partner.
Most Filipinos today can’t live without social media.
So if you’re torn about whether the Filipina you’re dating is a walking red flag or not, here are a few points to consider:
Dating a Filipina Who is Chronically Online
The Perks:
Filipinas who are active on social media are more likely to easily adapt and be open-minded.
They love welcoming new ideas and have very progressive thoughts and opinions. Hence, it will be easier to get them to listen to your view.
It won’t be hard for you to find something to talk about.
They won’t be difficult to message either. If ever you’re feeling down or you’re just looking for someone to talk to, you can rely on them to respond ASAP.
The Cons:
Some Filipinas care too much about online validation. You have to fill their need to be validated if you want to be their boyfriend.
A chronically online Filipina may also fall victim to fake news or online hoaxes. Her tendency to believe anything online may be a cause of concern to you, particularly if the things she espouses go against your beliefs and values.
You may find it difficult to communicate with her if she stays too long on social media.
And when you spend your quality time together, she’ll most likely be glued to her phone instead of paying attention to you.
Dating a Filipina who is a Digital Hermit
The Perks:
Filipinas without social media are most likely to be grounded and strong-willed. They aren’t the kind to be easily persuaded.
A Filipina without social media would most likely show a few relationship green flags. They have gone past the stage where they have to post online to blend in with the crowd.
They don’t look for online validation — not when their lives are much better offline.
The Cons:
Their strongest suits can also be their weakest points. Because of how stubborn they are at times, you may find it difficult to come to a compromise.
These Filipinas are also most likely to associate any problem you have with your use of social media, even if it did not have anything to do with it.
The Answer: It’s a green flag
But not completely.
Using social media too frequently can poison your mental wellbeing, which can then lead to potentially bad behavior in real life. Hence, those who avoid it are most likely to have a healthier mindset.
But it’s near impossible to find a Filipina without social media. It’s no different from finding a needle in a haystack.
The best way to determine whether a Filipina is showing red flags or not is based on their social media consumption.
If they know when to stop, then she’s a keeper. If not — then you might want to find someone else.
